The Impossible is Possible

Light bulbs flashed, cameras rolled, and champagne flowed freely Saturday night (April 26th) at the Levine Museum of the New South in celebration of independent designer Rob Mackey’s new Spring/Fall collection of trendy urban gear.

Charlotte turned Hollywood chic for Mackey’s show. The line, J. Zemar Originals can be described as fun, flirty and sexy with a touch of edge. The models were energetic and fiercely dominated the catwalk in eye popping, sensual styles. At the beginning of the show, Mackey announced that all of the pieces that he designed specifically for the night were held up at customs, hence forcing him to redo his entire collection. For an entire two days prior, Mackey designed and sewed all new pieces just so he would not disappoint the crowd. Talk about tenacity and working well under pressure—independent designers please take note.

The East Coast's Bad Boy DJ Flemingo provided the ideal musical ambiance. All in all, it was a great look for all involved. A portion of the proceeds from the evening went to Sickle Cell Research, making this a true party with a purpose.

To learn more about J. Zemar Originals, visit www.jzemar.com.

Obama Fundraising Recap / Birthday Weekend Preview

The birthday madness has begun, and I couldn’t have planned a better weekend. The festivities officially began yesterday at JSW Media Group’s first official event, an Obama for America Mix & Mingle at Loft 1523. The crowd was great, we garnered some good press (special thanks to Tonya Jameson from Charlotte Observer and Fox Charlotte for coning out) and most of all we raised a decent amount of money for the campaign. It was so incredible to be surrounded by individuals who not only championed change, but was eager for it too. It was nice to see people support something, instead of just throwing their hands up and saying, “who cares? It doesn’t really matter anyway.” True, those with that attitude may indeed consider themselves as realists; but being in the midst of the political process, engaging in healthy debate and letting your voice be heard is truly “keeping it real.” I digress…the whole vibe was cool due largely in part to DJ Badala spinning grooves so sweet, you couldn’t help but to nod your head and enjoy. I especially LOVED Badala’s special house remix to Obama’s Yes We Can song...pure hotness. Also, Lavish Catering did an amazing job providing us with all kinds of edible delights, so if you need a caterer for your next event, holla at me for the number. This event would not have event happened if it wasn’t for my partner in crime, otherwise known as JSW Media Group’s public image consultant, Erin Dunn…you did an incredible job Chica! Also, thanks to all the volunteers and just everyone in attendance. I was quite pleased in general with the turnout and quality of the affair. I think I’m ready for the next event already, lol. I’ll post photos and video from the event soon. Promise.

Tonight, there is the Art, Beats + Lyrics event at Center Stage in NoDa (arts district). Should be hot, it’s a fusion of hip hop art and culture. Should be fun. Tomorrow is my actual birthday (and it falls on a Saturday, woohoo!), I am supposed to be attending a bunch of stuff…but it just dawned on me…It’s my birthday, why don’t I just do whatever I want.

Gotta love life’s little epiphanies.

Until later…

Mental Health Day

Sometimes you just need to take a much needed mental health break…well that is exactly what we did last week. I rounded up two of my five partners in crime Kirsten and Jacinta (Kiki met up with us later, Khendra is out of state and Erin was doing her own thing, working hard for JSW Media Group---which in retrospect, I guess I should have been working as well considering it is my company after all, lol)…


Anyway, it was an impromptu get together with the ladies to do what we do best, Laugh, Talk, and Laugh some more…We talked about men, faith, our careers, our family, friends…you name it, we discussed it. Some of the talk definitely would have made even the manliest of men blush, but we kept the convo PG-13…for the most part. It was just nice to be out and about at a non industry event. And it is at our secret after work hang out spot. Mums the word on that, I need to keep it a secret for awhile until if/when I find a new location that is chill and way from the masses. I love what I do, but so much of who I am as a person is being silly and carefree and you can’t always do that in the confines of a work related outing…Being an emerging socialite is exhausting…

Peace & Blessings

Poetry & Jazz- April Edition




Hope to see you there! I plan on reading a couple of poems...And my mother may perform a song or two in honor of her birthday, which is also on April 16th...

Upcoming Events

So I am going to do my absolute best to hit some of these worthwile events this week...I'm not sure how successful I will be considering I am working off of very little sleep. I hung out with the chicas last night at an undisclosed location (we aren't ready to let everyone know about our secret hang out spot just yet) and I am worn out. I also woke up mad early to wish someone special a happy birthday. I'm so done. But alas, I'm in the entertainment industry, which means I have to suck it up, put on my dancing shoes and get out there and mingle...Here is a listing of events just in case anyone wants to join me.






I know I'm missing some stuff...I will add as needed...

The Grind

I can’t believe it is only four months into the New Year and so much in my life has changed. Traumatic stuff, yet I am still standing; I can only thank God for that, because if it were up to me, I would be curled up in the fetal position watching lifetime movies and eating Wildberry Tofutti Supreme (soy, non dairy frozen dessert for those of you ignorant to the “ice cream” made for the vegans and lactose intolerant). But I thank the Lord that he made me stronger than that. He made me so strong, that I am letting it all roll off my back, I am letting all of the pain and heartbreak flow right out. I am better than that, most of us are, but we keep holding ourselves back by keeping negativity, pettiness and malignant intentions inside until it corrupts the heart, the mind, the soul. Let it go people…I did, or at least I am trying to, it makes a difference on how you see the world.

My first love is writing, with being in front of the camera being a close second…and also I am enjoying working in the field of public relations and brand management. I feel as if I was born to do this. My life is about to speed up considerably for the simple fact that I have so many writing projects to finish up in a relatively short period of time…I’m looking forward to publishing my book of poetry this year as well as the creative non fiction piece that I am co-authoring with Erin Dunn (Public Consultant, JSW Media Group). Life is good…and the grind is incredible. Looks like I won’t be slowing down anytime soon.

Side Note- my baby is scheduled to visit next month. I’m keeping his identity a secret for the time being because (a) I don’t want to sabotage it, and (b) I’m not ready to share him with the world just yet. But know this, he is a breath of fresh air, and just the kind of man I would like to be involved with, so we will see what happens.

In my “Element”





Last night, I had the opportunity to attend a launch party sponsored by PPBS Construction for the Element at Craig Avenue, here in Charlotte, NC. Nikko Japanese Restaurant and Sushi Bar served as the perfect backdrop for this event.

Element is a “community of modern, high performance, single family residences designed by Liquid Design and Tom Long.” Not only will the homes feature luxurious amenities, but it will also be a green community—lots of eco-friendly extra for those of us who are earth conscious. With prices starting in the upper $400s to $500s, the spacious 2300-3000 square foot homes will be well worth the money spent….Anyone want to loan me half a mil to move? I’ll throw you a dinner party, lol.



All in all, it was a great evening….can’t go wrong when you get a chance to network and have fab conversations with good people. And Nikko’s is a great spot. I may have to hit them for my next after work outing.

Terrified…

Okay, so I am actually contemplating getting into another true, genuine, adult relationship. Talk about being terrified and in strong denial that this could be happening. By choice, I haven’t had a boyfriend in quite a while. True I have dated, or at least tried to date, but in terms of being a true committed relationship. It has been a long minute. Am I ready to put in the work? Well, that’s the question of the century isn’t it? I would like to think that I am…but there is always that uncertainty. Here are the things I know for sure: I know I can stay faithful. I know that he loves me. I am not only attracted to this man physically but mentally and spiritually. God has sent me a brother who loves God and abides by his commandments. I have been sent someone who wants to take care of me, who is a gentleman without being chauvinistic. He is passionate about his work, but still attentive enough to respect mine and what I have to do to make it. He is secure, not jealous and a complement to my personality in so many ways. For the first time in a long time, I can actually see a future with someone. A huge step for me….a huge step.


Peace & Blessings

Don’t Talk…Do

My father was a phenomenal entrepreneur. His business acumen was so sharp, that he could wrap up business deals with a single look or nod of the head. Pops was no joke. My mother has always been an entrepreneur. She has owned and operated restaurants, specialty boutiques, a catering and personal chef service and several successful non profits…not to mention being one of the first African American female booking agents in her day—working with the likes of the Ojays, Blue Magic and other Motown greats. So when I say that business is in my blood, I am quite serious. I think that is why hype talk and the every present “I’m doing big things” statement gets on my last nerves.

I am so irritated by those people who love to talk, talk, talk and talk about all the great things they are doing, but you never see the evidence of their so called hard work…I have several monikers, but I bet that there is a product attached to each one of those “titles” I (as well as others) assigned to me. For instance, I model, and guess what I have a resume and photos to prove it. I co-founded a magazine, guess what, 3 years and 12 printed issues later, I have something to show for all of my talk. I wanted to do a radio show, I rounded up one of my good friends, and one year later I have a successful track record of a year’s worth of shows that I not only co-host but produce. Not to mention I write, poetry, articles, web copy, you name it, I write it. But really this is not about all the stuff I do…it’s about people who are all talk and no action. People, just stop talking, and do something. There is nothing wrong with dreaming big; I do it all the time…nevertheless, when it is time to make those dreams a reality, take the opportunity to make it happen. Don’t just talk about it. Be about it.

Peace & Blessings

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